In the midst of a crowd, one can feel isolated. Some folks have been found to think- "On the weekend it seems as though everyone in the entire world is having fun except me." Another thought- "Others will get together and hang out and leave me hanging!"
Have you felt like them before? Indeed the desire to fit in with a group of people and to be accepted by them is a natural desire. As social creatures, we thrive on interaction with others. Since people need people, we feel hurt to be left out. It is especially disappointing if we're left out repeatedly or if we're made to feel that we don't measure up to the standards of those we want to befriend.
What are some tips to overcome loneliness?
1. Smile. Your warmth will invite others to converse with you. This even works online with those smilies or emoticons.
2. Introduce yourself. Give your name and where you are from.
3. Ask questions. Without being nosy, ask appropriate questions about the other person's background.
4. Listen. Don't be thinking of what you will say next. Primarily, listen. Your next question or statement will come naturally.
5. Relax! Conversation can open the door to new friendships. So enjoy the experience!
What are some tips to overcome loneliness?
1. Smile. Your warmth will invite others to converse with you. This even works online with those smilies or emoticons.
2. Introduce yourself. Give your name and where you are from.
3. Ask questions. Without being nosy, ask appropriate questions about the other person's background.
4. Listen. Don't be thinking of what you will say next. Primarily, listen. Your next question or statement will come naturally.
5. Relax! Conversation can open the door to new friendships. So enjoy the experience!
Hmm...usually, I just listen and smile. And people would feel the urge to continue talking to me. No introduction need at all. Of course, it will continue to take a few times before we become fast friends. I have a few friends whom I don't even know their name...lol. I just know them by sight.
ReplyDeletelovely post. i like how you said that it's naturally human to want to socialize - i certainly do! i think socializing and conversation are the most exciting and fun activities in this world. keep up the great blogging and please stay in touch on the blogosphere!
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